Black Friday: Beware of Toy Blockers

For the past two years, my husband Noel and I have dragged ourselves out of bed before sunrise on the day after Thanksgiving to head to the local Black Friday sale at Target. It is quite the scene. Everyone stands civilly in line waiting for the clock to hit 4am and suddenly, this line of seemingly normal, calm individuals turn into ravenous banshees on a mission. Really the humor and spectacle of it all is worth a trip down to your local shopping center, just to witness the festivities and pure unadulterated frenzy. But I must admit, I too feel the "got to get a bargain" hypnosis come over me.

What is it about a deal? Especially for us women? And as you will note, 90% of the crazy people waiting to shop in the pitch black of night after just hours earlier consuming half their weight in turkey and pie...are women. Nothing stands between us ladies and a deal.

My virgin year at Black Friday, I had a bit of a run-in.

At this ungodly 4am hour I hurriedly struggled to get through the crowd and get the MegaBlocks set my little boys had been wanting (at 60% off mind you). That is when it happened. I met her, my nemesis, the aisle blocking momma. She stood "oh so sweet" with her baby in her cart and left it to block an entire aisle of the best toys.  There was no thought to the other 100 people trying to get in and get their treasures.  I watched as she left her newborn baby (with said cart still blocking the aisle) and strutted down to begin grabbing loads of MEGABLOCKS off of the shelf. Of course! It had to be the one toy my little guys had hoped for... (Deep Breath)

This was not a casual, forgetful mom in a hurry, this woman was using her baby to Toy block the rest of us. I stood and watched as person after person stood frustrated and waiting for her to move her cart.  The crowd began to push through, jostling this little baby too many times to count. (Deep Breath) I'd had it. With that I grabbed the cart, pushed it right up to the woman, and said quite pointedly (and yes, I was proud), "um, forget something." She looked at me with the innocence of a toddler that just did the very thing you told them not to do and darn well knows it.

Then we were off, grabbing our toys and making Christmas happen a month early and the excitement and sheer thrill could be felt. Not only were we getting a deal, we were shopping early. If we were female gorillas we would have been beating our chest. These mommas were feeling good!

With MegaBlocks in hand I started to walk, or shuffled b/c the crowd was thick like bees headed to a hive, toward the register. And as I began walking, BAM!

If you have ever been walking and had the uncomfortable experience of having someone step on the back of your shoe, thus scraping your ankle, you know this is a less than welcome moment. But, have you been hit by a shopping cart in the back of the ankle?

"OOPS," I heard from behind me.

I screeched in pain and turned to see what crazy person had just rammed me...and oh yes, it was HER--the Momma Toy Blocker. She said sorry, with the sincerity of a back handed slap, and I turned around to continue my trek toward the Promised Land, the cash register. Grace can be had for the accidental bump, but when OOPS happened 5 more times in 5 minutes--my patience was wearing more than thin. I have only been to Yoga a few times but those deep breathing techniques were coming into full play as Momma Toy Blocker continued to hit my legs like a jackhammer on concrete. And the worst part, I highly suspect it wasn't on accident, after all I was the one that foiled her evil plan to rid my town of all 60% off MegaBlocks.

Within moments, I was there. I had made it to the register. MegaBlocks in hand and bruises to show for it. Anger in check and ready to check out.

So, if you plan on heading out to hit the big sales on November 25th, I hope you have learned from my story. Moms, beware of the Momma Toy Blocker...you never know when or where she may show up and remember to take lots of deep breaths.

To find out about your local Black Friday deals, go to www.blackfriday2011.com. This will give you time to get your list together and go in with a game plan. I have found the best deals at Target and Toys R Us.

(WARNING: Toys R Us is pure insanity. Its like going to Hot Yoga with no water, wearing a parka and sweat pants with Rebecca Black's "Its Friday," playing over and over...just want to prepare you for what you are in for. But. there are some great deals).

BLACK FRIDAY TIPS:
**Look at an ad and make a list of the specific items you are getting. Don't plan to "shop." Its a pointed and specific venture. This is a savings war people, get your game face on. Black Friday is not for shopping sissies.
**Go with a partner and divide and conquer. 1 person will have to focus just on the toys.
**Don't 2nd guess, buy it and return it later. Buy multiples if you think there is even a remote chance someone you know would want it. The worst feeling is wishing you had purchased something and it being too late. Plus, if you go closer to Christmas you will be paying 30-60% more without the discounts--don't give yourself delayed purchase remorse.
**Wear comfortable shoes!!!!

So Out and About Moms, are you brave enough to face the Toy Blockers this upcoming Black Friday?  

Happy shopping! Can't wait to hear about your adventures...

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